Breaking the Silence.

It was after more than 24 hours that he called. I didn't know what to say. I was contemplating whether I should talk about the issue, or just remain silent as he talks.

I did option 2. He was asking me questions that he asks everyday...What did you do today? Did you eat na?...Stuff like that. PARANG WALANG NANGYARI. Although, I can hear in his voice that in some ways, the issue is also at the back of his mind. We both decided to just forget about what happened. I just told him that I'm hoping we could learn to understand each other better. This reminded me of the First Habit: Be Proactive (and not reactive). This is something that I have not been practicing for a long time.

However, wala pang 24 hours, hindi na naman siya nagrereply or namamansin. I think it would be best for me to do the same thing, and let him have a taste of his own medicine. E di kung gusto nyang minsan na ang ang text and calls, fine. Kung gusto nyang wag na magkita mashado, fine. Sha naman ang laging nasusunod eh.

Nagsisimula na akong mapikon...Masama na to. Konti na lang magcoconcentrate na ko sa paghanap ng iba.